~Sarah
~Sarah
Hanging in the boys' room |
Ah, summer is officially here.
Even though the weather has been so warm you would have thought it's been here for a while already!
We celebrate the Summer Solstice with a box of summertime goodies for the boys. We call them "First Day of Summer Boxes". It started from a story in a Highlights magazine and they are always really excited and thankful to get them.
This year, the summer boxes included floppy hats (Pokémon & Avengers themed), beads & string, water guns, window ornaments for coloring, and chapstick.
Rowan has been really into addition (and you know I love it!).
On our last big road trip, we spent about an hour playing the "adding game". Rowan would say two numbers for me to add together (he usually chose the biggest numbers he could think of) and then I would say two numbers for him to add together.
I had to keep my number choices low (ie. add up to less than 10) so that he could add them up on his hands. He did have a little trouble when I chose a number over 5, like say, "6 + 2". He didn't realize he could carry the extra 1 on the 6 over to his other hand and then put up two more fingers on that same hand.
That took a little coaching and I'm still not sure he got it because shortly after, the game turned into adding a number with an object, "Mom, what is 3 plus car?!" This game lasted another half hour or so.
I'm going to come right out and admit it. The number plus object game bothered me slightly. OK, it bothered me a lot! It was like a nail on chalkboard. I winced every single time they had an "equation" for me. But as long as they were entertained, I did what I could to pretend I was enjoying the game.
Then the other day when we went to lunch, the kids menu had an adding game. Rowan was instantly intrigued, but because it had multiple numbers and some larger than 5 (one hand, remember), he was having trouble.
Then Rogér suggested drawing tally marks next to each number so that Rowan could count all the tally marks to add up the numbers.
I did the first tally marks and then Rowan took over, carefully drawing the correct number of lines next to each number.
I'm so so SO behind. It was a ton of fun visiting our friends and family, but it was also a lot of work for this mama and the kids seemed to go through a funky recovery phase too.
Life goes on now that we are back. Preschool has wrapped up for Rowan. We went to his graduation party this last week. It was really cute. During their performance, Rowan decided it was the perfect opportunity to show off how "silly" he is....of course. But mostly a very sweet occasion.
Ok, here's the recap of our roadtrip down to Cali....FINALLY!
I really really wanted to go to my best friend, and college roomie, Jen's baby shower. Trouble was, it was all the way down in the Bay Area. But one of the beauties of staying at home with a flexible work schedule is that I am able to pick up and go places as I please, if I please. I just have to bring the boys with me. And I have to do it alone since Roger' doesn't have the same freedom right now.
This ability (and responsibility) of being able to go places with the boys has pushed me out of my comfort zone to be a more adventurous and independent mother. I actually never would have imagined that I could do so many things on my own with my two youngsters.
That's the reason why my first road trip with my little road dogs (Part 1 & Part 2), and this second trip feel so liberating, and why I am both eager and half force myself to do them.
I prepped for the trip with some new car activities. portable pinball toys, dry erase boards, magnetic games, search and find pages (super easy to make), healthy snacks, water & juice, all packed into their little backpacks.
Halfway into the first hour of our 12 hour haul, Rowan says to me, "Mom, THANK YOU for packing all these fun stuffs! This is the best road trip EVER!"
Toward the end of the second hour, they were totally over all the goodies and wondering when we were going to be there!
We only made a couple stops for gas, potty breaks, and McDonald's (McDonald's is a road trip staple in our family, say what you will, it makes everyone happy and gets us through). I was especially happy with the McDonald's that we stopped at in Medford. It had a nice indoor play place that was much more open than others we've been to, so the kids were very visible and accessible (Cid often gets stuck up in the tunnel type ones, leaving me with a predicament...do I climb up there and get him? Do I leave him to go find a McD's employee? Usually I enlist some of the older kids to help him out, but it can be a bit truamatic). When you're traveling alone as a mom with your kids, places like this make the experience much more comfortable.
Our first real stop was at my dad's house in Cotati, near Petaluma. The kids love all the old-school games that Barbara has: Cooties, Don't Break the Ice, Ants in Your Pants, etc. And Cid is obsessed with their pet duck.
The next day we were off to Jen's baby shower in the East Bay. It was so nice to get to see our peeps. We enjoyed the party and the company! Baby Decker made out good, but I think Miss Hailey (Jen's little girl) made out even better. Of course, Hailey was an angel the whole day, as usual, while my kids were into everything and had me running different directions constantly. Unfortunately, I didn't get any photos this day, but Rowan did take this one of a Lego storage container.